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by Denise_White from Fox 13, Tampa Bay

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       Did you read Bill Maxwell's column in the St. Pete Times entitled 'School Integration is Not the Answer'.  He says people 'naturally' congregate by race and so its a waste of time and money to force white and minority children to learn and play together. I'm sure there are many people who share his views. I'm just as sure a lot don't. I'll cast my lot with them. 

     I started thinking about my own journey in this relatively young 'social experiment'. I began life in an all black , modest single family neighborhood in Virginia. I attended segregated elementary and middle schools. Then I was bused to a new high school that  opened to  black and white students for the first time. After graduating I went  to a predominantly white university. I've endured racial slight, slurs and  isolation on one hand. And on the other, made friends, got a helping hand now and then, and expanded my horizons across racial lines.

    The recent rash of 'nooses' to frighten black students, daily slights and injustice does not  mean integration is a failure. In the span of time, the last seventeen years is just a blink of an eye. Racial integration is a process of evolution.

     I'm pro-integration. I'm grateful for laws like Brown versus the Board of Education. It ended legalized racism. I'm happy, not because I felt my education was inferior before it passed. It wasn't. But because it gave me new choices, introduced me to people I would never have met, allowed me to share my talents with them and absorb what they were willing to offer. And I've made a few friends a long the way. It has not been a cumbaya experience, nor is it now. Its about being a part of the world and a wider community and finding my place in it. 

      This planet is not one race of people, isolated from one another.  School is a great place to learn that and life's greatest lesson: Getting along with people who don't look or think like you.  Some learn it. Some don't. Thats no reason to stop trying.

  

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LIONKINGLAMB read my blog view my photos
Oct 11, 2007 | 10:02 PM

Thanks for giving me a glimpse into the personal life of my favorite newscaster. I guess what you went through added to your uniqueness as a professional with a heart. Racial problems will never be solved on this side of glory. Only when we see each other through the eyes of God will there be a harmony of colors.

CrankyMan read my blog view my photos
Oct 11, 2007 | 10:53 PM

Denise, it is natural for people to seek out the familiar, to try to find people like themselves for the sake of feeling as if they belong to a group.

There are others of us who enjoy meeting new people, making new friends, and don't take notice of ethnic, political or racial differences.

But segregation simply cuts people off from seeing other folks that could become friends. That's one of my peeves, as I believe a lot of the trouble and strife in the world is cause by people irrationally hating those who are somehow different from them.

RICKJOHNSON read my blog view my photos
Oct 12, 2007 | 6:57 AM

Is Bill Maxwell a member of the KKK? Racism=Terrorism! Denise White you are a great person! Color of your skin does not make you good or bad. Really, white people are the colored people, on that note, I am white. White people are born pink, get yellow when they are scared, green when they are sick, blue when they get cold, red from the sun, purple when they bruise, and gray when they die. So who really are the colored people?
I wish I could say I had a beautiful black woman like Denise White as my girlfriend.

Hawkeye read my blog
Oct 12, 2007 | 7:08 AM

People DO congregate with others of similar interest, motivations, gosls and especially a common HISTORY and it isn’t ALWAYS because of race alone..We see evidence of this when women congretgate, or men, or people who share a common language..For a LONG time you had BOTH a Chinese AND and Japanese district in San Francisco....We see it NOW for POLITICAL reasons as well..The Irish did it,,so did the Italians and the Germans and the Poles…We see it for religious reasons.. The Baptists do it and so do adheerents of all the OTHER religions..The Muslims, Catholics, Jews and yes ..EVEN the Atheists do it..Often we see, particularly in large cities, whole sections that are Identified by the group that is predominant there..
These Isolated “Cultural” enclaves weren’t ALWAYS a matter of forced segregation either..Often the people did these things “voluntarily”..
Now..ONE could make the argument that opportunity and availability played a tremendous role in this phenomenon and as such Discrimination , and NOT a Voluntarilly choice might have played a greater role here AND there would be a degree of validity TO that argument..On the Other hand,,WE see a resurgence of the isolationism mentality expressed in the desires to PRESERVE a given Cultural heritage..In the past such mentalities were immediately identified as “Supremacy” movements but NOW we see them in the form of Hyphenated Designations..
The point is that WE,, as a people AND a Culture, have come to accept a certain diversity AND a certain KIND of Discrimmination as a valid recognition of a particular Cultural Heritage. We

Hawkeye read my blog
Oct 12, 2007 | 7:09 AM

We have Black History Month, Parades celebrating the Irish Cultural Heritage, Polish Festivals, German Octoberfests, Cinco de Mayo and a HOST of OTHER such events SPECIFICALLY aimed at,, But NOT exclusive to, certain groups..

And THEN there’s Jena..When we see a CLEAR example of a divide that is PURLY defined as an incident born of hatred in ANY form, and for ANY reason, we simply shake our heads, wonder at just how far we’ve really come and question the TRUE Nature of OUR culture…I,,for one, am NOT so disheartened by the incident itself as I am encouraged by the overwhelming reaction TO that Incident..We HAVE come a LONG way but we have NOT completed this journey..Perhaps we NEVER will..Perhaps the best that we can EVER hope to DO, like the search for ANY truth,, is to simply keep it going in the right direction..In the end,,It may end up being the Journey itself, and it’s direction, that defines who we REALLY are…..

Vittorio read my blog view my photos
Oct 12, 2007 | 2:35 PM

Segregation in neighborhoods was self imposed by immigrants who didn't speak English. They grouped together so they could get by. Same thing is happening today but not nearly as much; and that's good.

I always list my race as "Human". If you can do the same, that's good enough for me.

thebradleys read my blog
Oct 12, 2007 | 4:52 PM

We ALL bleed red.
And the sound of laughter is universal.

I am happy to say that come the holidays, our family looks, and sounds, like a United Nations convention seated in the dining room.

We cover five languages, and almost twice that in the countries of origin.

Racism? We were raised that was what tacky people practiced. And "we don't socialize with tacky people." [A nod to my Southern grandmother.]

I can't wait to see what our next generation will include!

A colorful life is far more fulfilling than a grey one....

We have been blessed.

leasheryn read my blog
Oct 12, 2007 | 6:24 PM

Nowadays we have African Americans, Asia Americans, Hispanic Americans, Native Americans. If we could get away with it, the next would be European Americans. It sounds like an oxymoron to me. You are either African or American, Asian or American, Hispanic or American, etc... It's the labelling that calls attention to the fact of distinguishing a difference and invites segregation.
What's so wrong with being an American? Shouldn't we be proud of who we are as a nation and quit throwing in reasons that divide us into smaller nations on one land?

DrugDealer read my blog
Oct 12, 2007 | 8:03 PM

We are all Mutt-Americans!

thebradleys read my blog
Oct 12, 2007 | 8:30 PM

And generally speaking, most mutts are lovable!

If we can learn AS A GROUP to see one another as HUMAN BEINGS first, respecting one another as we OURSELVES wish to be respected, THEN and only then can we truly appreciate the value of the very things that make us all differant.

RandyLoo read my blog view my photos
Oct 12, 2007 | 8:56 PM

Say Amen to school vouchers. You can't count on public school administrations to be fair when it comes to integrating schools or building, funding and staffing effective schools in blighted areas. But parents in these areas could use the vouchers to send their children to private schools and get the last laugh on public schools.

Vittorio read my blog view my photos
Oct 13, 2007 | 8:37 AM

I'm with Whoopie Goldberg. She has a problem with the term "African American" and refuses to describe herself as such. She calls herself an "American". Well done. We don't need sub classes.

RandyLoo read my blog view my photos
Oct 13, 2007 | 9:01 AM

Sooooooo Right, Vit...We are Americans, pure and simple...end of story. Having to check boxes as to your ethnic origination on every thing that has to do with school or government burns my buns. The government, in my opinion, perpetuates racism in this nation.

RICKJOHNSON read my blog view my photos
Oct 13, 2007 | 9:24 AM

I am a white mutt American and I don't care if someone wants to label me! I like everyone, and the ones that don't like me, oh well, they are the easiest to kill with kindness. There is too much hate, we should all come together and celebrate! Celebrate, life, damn I am so glad I have it!

babs25
Oct 14, 2007 | 12:06 AM

"I always list my race as "Human". If you can do the same, that's good enough for me."

I'm with you on that one, Vittorio. I think I will answer the same when I'm asked. Actually maybe I will just leave that space blank when I see it on any form I fill out. There's really no reason for this question to be asked when filling out spaces on a form.

Last I heard it was illegal to ask this question on a form or questionaire. At best it is supposed to be "optional" to answer it.

Neanderthal read my blog
Oct 14, 2007 | 9:03 AM

First and foremost in my mind is that opportunity must be there for any and all Americans. Choice is something everyone of us do almost unconsciously every day e.g., clothes, vehicles, foods, sports, et al. Sadly, the stigma of "race" has become part and parcel of the term "discrimination" but rather than go into semantics, suffice to say life is an ongoing series of choices. Some will make good choices, others not so good. Race has no bearing on the individual choices made, so take every individual at "face value" and leave prejudice to the less fortunate, imcomplete souls.

leasheryn read my blog
Oct 14, 2007 | 6:15 PM

I agree, Nean. What "burns my buns", as Randy says, is so often hearing people say they are in such and such a position because they "have no choice". Choice is all around us and if we don't like the position we are in, we have the ability to make choices and to change that position.
Making choices or changing our circumstances has to do with the individual, not a people classified as a race. We all have choices, we all have a brain to think with and we all have abilities. It's just a matter of focusing ability towards finding the means to make a change.
No one is trapped or forced into a situation or circumstance when there is the ability to change.

Georgenfla read my blog view my photos
Oct 15, 2007 | 4:41 AM

I remember public school too. The constant racial harrassment against me and my friends. The shake-downs for lunch money, the degradation, the threats, being beat up by 4 or more people just because I was alone...all of this because I am Caucasian/white. It was tough growing up in a non-segregated school.

Neanderthal read my blog
Oct 15, 2007 | 9:00 AM

Sadly, when groups form it can be for good or ill. Too often, a "group" will "choose" to form a gang with foul intentions. I remember these are the people who have made bad choices and accept them for what they are, "social misfits." Like all of those who make "good choices," we disaprove of these "misfits" regardless of their ethnic origins.

We must never judge all for the actions of a few and that goes for every ethnic identity.

Hawkeye read my blog
Oct 15, 2007 | 12:15 PM

I too found myself in situations where I was bullied in school and THEY were ALL Caucasion..
I Learned to DEAL with that in time and came away with the knowledge that scratch a bully, whatever the color of their skin, and you'll find a YELLOW BELLIED COWARD..

It is NOT the color of their skin that WE should oppose,,it is the ACTIONS that they employ..

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Denise_White

I anchor the Fox 13 News at Noon and co-anchor the Fox 13 News at Five. Each weekday I try to bring you reports that are informative, relevant and entertaining.

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