I grew up in a time when we could afford Doctors, hospitals, houseing, food, and gas. Before unions ran alot of companies and insurance was a had to have on cars. I listened to music that you could tell what was said, and your parents said be home by dark and by george you were cause you would be standing for a few days if you weren't. Seatbelts were invented, and our country still had one room schools. Where I grew up we all knew everyone and the police knew our families. There was very little crime because we all knew Jonny, Mary and My parents and you lived in fear that mom and dad would find out you cussed. I remember sitting politely listening to the elderly go on and on about the good old days and thought black and white TV was too cool. We got 2 or 3 channels and loved it. Hop Along Cassidy was my hero. You still listened to shows on the radio and with your parents.
I was there when they passed the law that 18 was now the offical legal age and you did not need your husbands signature to get your tubes tied. I was alive when the first color TV was introduced to the market and I was on a swing when JFK was killed outside our then 2 room school house. Yes those were good old days when you could play outside at the park until dark with no parents to watch you, and you knew who needed help because their dad was out of work and the nieghborhoods chipped in to help. I watched wars come and go and people complain about them. I lived in a time when Children were children, not so many young mom and dads. I watched the hippies, yippies, and other groups come and almost go. I watched LSD hit the drug market and ruin lifes. I lived when prison was not a day care for adults with more benifits than most of us have. You did not want to go there back then.
I learned to drive before you had to insure your car and we drove tanks of a car. That was when a car lasted forever and you got the old family car. My first car was a 49 olds delta 88 and I loved it. Yes they were the good old days, when parents let you play because we were a community and every mom watched out for every child as they would their own. I watched this change to no one knows their neigbors and don't want to, where you see nothing, hear nothing, say nothing, then complain when nothing is being done to solve anything.
I lived when we all took care of each other and never expected the government to do it. We did what had to be done because at that time we were a community of people who BBQed with each other and gathered at homes to watch the news, TV programs and talk about family. Where we found the teens at Johnnies on 22cd street, (AZ) and could bring our kids home if it was too late for them to be out. Yes I lived in the good old days when we weren't taxed to death and killed sitting on our porches nor did we fear our children playing at the park. Things have changed and we now have computors, and our kids are not safe in their own yards much less the park and mom works so we have latch key kids. And drive in movies were the thing.
Now schools are huge and our kids do not learn as much nor do they help the younger ones like we did. Yes I think I did live in the good old days even if we didn't have airconditions and all these modern things. We had each other and kids who played outside and moms at home cooking dinner and taking care of them and faimily was the center of your world. We knew every one and we talked to the police and life was much slower. Those were the days. Today I have lived for 5 years and can't tell you who lives on my old street cause I do not know them. I move to a small town because my husband got sick for a year and we lost everything. But I moved to a place where every one knows every one and the police stop and talk to you and We all gather at the local fast food place to listen to gospel music.
I think I may have moved to the good old days, only it cost more and I have a computor, and we are still struggling but we have great neigbors and they know us and we know them. Our kids play outside and at the parks and we don't worry. We can work with the doctors not the insurance companies and we take care of our large family called the community. Yes I have moved into a time warp and it is nice to be home. I have moved to an age where moving slow and caring about each other is the thing to do. It's good to go back in time to the good old days.
| Member Comments | Total Comments: 26 |
|
|
jstol3
May 11, 2008 | 3:46 PM |
|||||||||
|
gimini210
May 11, 2008 | 5:02 PM |
|||||||||
|
jpbikerfreak
May 12, 2008 | 9:56 AM |
|||||||||
|
gimini210
May 12, 2008 | 10:36 AM |
|||||||||
|
gimini210
May 12, 2008 | 10:44 AM |
|||||||||
|
ratoon10
May 12, 2008 | 11:26 AM |
|||||||||
|
ralex
May 12, 2008 | 11:28 AM |
|||||||||
|
gimini210
May 12, 2008 | 12:19 PM |
|||||||||
|
Searchingtoo
May 12, 2008 | 12:33 PM |
|||||||||
|
Searchingtoo
May 12, 2008 | 12:33 PM |
|||||||||
|
jpbikerfreak
May 12, 2008 | 1:09 PM |
|||||||||
|
jpbikerfreak
May 12, 2008 | 1:09 PM |
|||||||||
|
mabell
May 12, 2008 | 2:01 PM |
|||||||||
|
jpbikerfreak
May 12, 2008 | 2:13 PM |
|||||||||
|
gimini210
May 12, 2008 | 2:28 PM |
|||||||||
|
jpbikerfreak
May 12, 2008 | 2:50 PM |
|||||||||
|
American1966
May 12, 2008 | 4:06 PM |
|||||||||
|
gimini210
May 12, 2008 | 4:59 PM |
|||||||||
|
mabell
May 12, 2008 | 5:25 PM |
|||||||||
|
American1966
May 12, 2008 | 8:35 PM |
|||||||||
|
|||||||||
I am a mother of 5, have 10 grandchildren and one greatgrand child. I have lived all over the US and love to sit on docks and fish. Waiting for the big one. I love my family and a good joke, reading and painting. My siblings all think I need to be taken care of as do my children and I'm the oldest so don't know why. I watch Fox 4 News because you are about the fairest all around on T.V.
Member Since: 6/28/2007