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When a parent sends a child to school, they send them with the expectation that they will receive an education.  But exactly what sort of education are they receiving at the hands of such as Debra LaFave and Stephanie Ragusa?  A couple of years ago, everyone was shouting when priests were underfire for molesting children.  Is there that much of a difference between an educational teacher and a spiritual teacher that one is less of a crime than the other?  Is one type of perversion so much different from another? 

A teacher is an educator, a role model for children, an example for a child to follow into his or her adulthood.  Many of us go through life with fond memories of a teacher who taught well or was a good mentor or gave us good advice at one time or another. 

A teacher is also someone who should be respected and they should enter their classrooms as a respectable adult.  In my day, a teacher dressed like a teacher and they stood apart as a leader in the classroom.  A teacher was in charge and didn't act like a child. 

A teacher is never a friend, never a buddy, never a pal.  A teacher is a teacher.  You never hung out with the teacher and heaven forbid the teacher ever hung out with the kids.  What kid, in their right mind, would want the teacher hanging out with them when they were doing or talking about things that only a kid would be interested in? 

It seems that parents are concerned, and rightly so, about who their children are connecting with on the internet or while text messaging.  There are alot of weird-o's out there in cyberspace but that is not the only place where weird-o's hang out.  They hang out in Burger King, on street corners and in parks.  And, it seems, they are hanging out in public schools scoping out your children as possibilities to molest, to satisfy their own needs, to steal the best years of their lives, to take away their childhood and to destroy their lives for one short moment of pleasure. 

It is time to start being concerned when your child is receiving emails, cell phone calls and text messages from a teacher.  It is time to start being concerned when your child is meeting a teacher at his or her house, at the park or if teacher is showing up at your door or bringing your child home from school.  There is no reason for a child to communicate with a teacher outside of school or on weekends.  Once school is out for the day, contact with a teacher is OVER!!

Be aware and beware.  Weird-o's and child molesters are not just on the internet, they are everywhere and waiting for the opportunity to put their hands all over your child!!

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FloydFreak read my blog view my photos
Apr 30, 2008 | 7:28 PM

Great post, as always, Sheryn!

Indeed, I had some really wonderful teachers as I look back with my 30th high school reunion looming. Even some of the ones that I did not particularly like, I hold in high regard all of these years later.

I'm not sure what is up with all of the scandals of late. It is possible that it is a reflection of society in general. I mean, thirty years ago, we did not have cops on campus; heck, we didn't even have a fence around our schools. On the other hand, I firmly believe that it is an incredibly small minority that is guilty of these acts.

There are MANY wonderful, dedicated teachers out there. Heck, you HAVE to be dedicated (or insane) to even consider this profession. A tip of the hat to all of the good teachers out there!

michelled read my blog view my photos
Apr 30, 2008 | 8:55 PM

I can not comprehend what is happening in our world today. Teacher's were an absolute authority, someone to be respected. I can remember one time seeing one of my teachers in a grocery store and freaked out. I was certain she had no need for earthly goods such as food, she could not have been human, walking the same earth as I in an ordinary life.

How is it that all positions of authority have fallen? How is it that a parent does not know where their children are? What is so important to us that we are not taking the time to monitor our own children? Clearly the teacher has taken advantage of this situation and should be punished, but let's take a little more time to find out why little Johnny or Susie needs to go to their teacher's house after school.

mmustangg read my blog view my photos
May 1, 2008 | 9:24 AM

As the children of the hippy age have become adults and enter jobs of responsibility, we have seen more and more of this behaviour. Wait till you see the grandkids of the free love generation! It's only going to get worse!

The hippies were the beginning of the end for us! Free love was never free. It came at a social cost that we are all now paying! Thank you, you tie-died freaks!

thetruthplease read my blog
May 1, 2008 | 2:46 PM

you do realize that the ages of some students and new teachers are relatively close and teachers have the trust of the students. there are still some good teachers out there. the situations aren't new, just more common.

mmustangg read my blog view my photos
May 1, 2008 | 3:42 PM

There should be an age requirement for teaching! 25 minimum! Maybe 30!

RandyLoo read my blog view my photos
May 1, 2008 | 7:23 PM

No, there shouldn't be an age minimum for teaching, the younger teachers need to gain some maturity in the head though. When I was 27 I was a serious mother of 3, I didn't have any inclination to go out and party, actup or drink, or even think of teenage boys. I would have never sat down and played childish games for my own pleasure (although I played all kinds of preschool games with my own children). Young mature adults who were teaching 20 or 30 years ago were just that...MATURE and they didn't have the mindset to be "friends" or "play" with the little kiddies they taught. Young teachers today still want to be teeny boppers when they should be serious minded adults.

mmustangg read my blog view my photos
May 1, 2008 | 8:21 PM

RandyLoo,

What about an apprentice system where they work with a seasoned teacher before being cut loose on a class of their own? Maybe 2 years?
You said they still want to be teeny boppers at age 25. I agree! We don't prepare our teens today for adulthood so by the time they reach their early 20s, they are still playing like children! If it were up to me, it would be an apprentice system or minimum age requirements.

RandyLoo read my blog view my photos
May 1, 2008 | 8:40 PM

I haven't a clue Mustang, the whole thing is just getting creepier and creepier. It must be global warming...yeah, that's the ticket! Our brains are getting fried (and we didn't even know it)...Gore tried to warn us though.

RandyLoo read my blog view my photos
May 1, 2008 | 8:42 PM

I do know one thing. They sure don't need to be teaching sex education in school. It has turned into "show and tell" for everyone.

mmustangg read my blog view my photos
May 1, 2008 | 8:44 PM

Yeh but in wood shop? Ewwwwwwwwwwwww! *lol*

Patriot view my photos
May 2, 2008 | 11:58 AM

Where were these teachers when I was 13 years old? Wooooooooooooooo, baby! Sex education at it's finest.

leasheryn read my blog
May 2, 2008 | 6:56 PM

A lot of the problem is adults are playing shildrens games like children and not setting an adult example. It's okay as Loo said to play games with children but not for your own pleasure or even for competitiveness. An adult playing or competiting with a child puts the adult on the same level as the child and the child never learns to respect the adult because the adult has a child's mind in an adult body.

As for teachers, I also have to ask, don't these people have social lives or know people of their own age to talk to or go out with? Are they so friendless that the only ones they can attract are children? You would think an adult would want to be with adult society and not talking about video games or Idol with a bunch of kids. It's just too weird for these teachers to hang with the kids.

Patriot, there's a difference between fantasy and reality. Boys and girl do fantasize about their teachers. It doesn't mean it has to become reality. When it becomes reality, the illusion is gone and never what it was meant to be in actuality. When it goes too far, it's called RAPE.

JANICELPED read my blog
May 3, 2008 | 7:24 PM

It's a shame that now we have to worry about even sending our children to school now. School used to be a place where you could send your kids and felt that they were safe and loved. Not anymore! It really worries me because as our son gets older and has to go to Jr. High and High school we have to hope and trust that his teachers will give him the respect that he has now. Our son is mildly autistic. Not quite the same as sending a "normal" child to school. As parents of an autistic child you always worry that they will be loved and respected. Right now he has had WONDERFUL teachers. No parent could ask for more. I hope it stays that way for him but as time goes by teachers seem to be getting worse. What is it going to take for these teachers to stop molesting our children? Can't they get a love life outside of the classroom? They are sick people that need to be put away for life as far as I'm concerned. If they will do it once they will do it again. They should be so ashamed!! THEY DISGUST ME!!!!

CrankyMan read my blog view my photos
May 4, 2008 | 9:06 PM

Leasheryn, I must disagree that teachers deserve respect simply because they've been hired as a teacher.

Although I did not attend school in Florida, I was singularly unimpressed with 80 percent of my teachers. Many of them had only a superficial understanding of the subjects they were teaching, and only a few were inspiring.

In secondary schools, I was occasionally sent to the principal's office because I was arguing with a teacher that what they were trying to teach was incorrect.

Of course I would give evidence to the principal, who eventually asked me to simply come see him if one of my teachers appeared to be misunderstanding the material. That's pretty well what got me through high school.

Just as important as FCAT, I want to see strict testing for teachers not only on their ability to teach, but their ability to understand the concepts they're trying to teach.

The 20 percent of really good teachers, who know their stuff well, who can explain difficult concepts as opposed to forcing rote learning, are the real heroes.

In summation, teachers deserve no more respect than any other public employee until they prove their competence.

volleyballgirl read my blog
May 5, 2008 | 2:13 PM

i am in school to be a teacher and to think that there are nasty people in the education field like these people is just wrong i know for sure i won't do this because i like men my own age not kindergarteners

leasheryn read my blog
May 5, 2008 | 6:42 PM

Cranky, I'm sure you are in the full understanding that respect is not a given thing; respect is earned. It's never been differently nor ever implied.
Teachers are respected when they teach well and uphold high standards; they are also respected as examples to their students and their ability to inspire. They are NOT respected when they put themselves at the same level as the students and act like children in the classroom.
VBG, you would think when a teacher leaves school, they would want to get away from children and socialize with their own peers. Best of luck in your teaching career. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and know where you are headed.

Neanderthal read my blog
May 7, 2008 | 2:10 PM

Noone over age 50 years could fail to notice the breakdown of educational discipline and standards since the late 1950's. Since then, Colleges and Universities created specialized departments concerning only methods for teaching with no regard to any specific subject matter. These "methods" were born out of avid scholars that based all educational methods on the psychological needs of the student. It was on this basically flawed foundation that our current education system evolved.

Until we come to realize that "modern" educators based their dogmas on theories they scarcely understood themselves, no amount of tinkering will set this "house of cards" solid and firm. Total reform is the only possible escape from the certain future collapse of this national intellectual tragedy.

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leasheryn

I am in Sarasota and enjoy reading avidly, mostly about historical subjects and biographies. Also have travelled in England and Wales, visiting family and historical sights. I like a good conversation on nearly all subjects and, although I have opinions, am willing to listen to all sides of a topic. I believe in listening and learning so your opinions are always necessary to me.

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