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by leasheryn from Sarasota

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While I was in Publix this morning, I overheard a conversation between the woman ahead of me and the cashier.  The woman stated that her son went to kindergarten this year and didn't like it.  She continued to say that she sat her son down and asked him if he wanted to go to school next year.  Her son said no, he didn't like school.  She decided that since he didn't like it, he didn't have to go the school again next year.  She thought there was little point in sending him to a place he didn't like.  She thought maybe if he wanted to go the following year, she would wait and ask him.  (I suppose if he decides he doesn't want to go the next year, she still wouldn't send him??)

Okay, so since when does a five year old child get to decide if he is going to school or not.  I thought school was  a requirement, not a choice.  Furthermore, a five year old child hasn't the ability to decide whether school is actually the right thing for him or not.  With this parent's attitude, the likelihood of this child spending anymore of his eighteen years in school is pretty much nil if the parent expects him to decide whether he is going or not. 

I have to ask, who's the stupid one here?  The parent or the child?  And who's got who wrapped around their little finger? 

 

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Vittorio read my blog view my photos
May 17, 2008 | 6:22 AM

I say it's the child's fault. By age 5, a child should be socially mature enough to atend school. This is not a parental responsibility. The parents should be able to return the child to the birth location and get an exchange. We need more guarantees in this country. Who would want to be a parant of a child like this and be embarrassed later on when the kid runs for government office? Some things are too much to bear.

MoonOwl read my blog view my photos
May 17, 2008 | 11:43 AM

That's funny Vittorio.

I may have blurted out 'are you freaking nuts?'

I'd say Mama needs a clue cuz the kid has her wrapped.

JamieMaddrox read my blog
May 17, 2008 | 7:26 PM

Haahhahaha Vitto my friend I love it Birth location all of us m,en are trying to get back in there

FloydFreak read my blog view my photos
May 17, 2008 | 8:57 PM

Indeed, good one, Vitt!

Isn't that preposterous, Sheryn? It just further illustrates a fundamental problem with society in general - the inmates are running the asylum.

When I was a kid and you even THOUGHT of not doing what your parents asked, you risked a major @ss kicking.

Of course, an @ss kicking in this day and age makes a parent subject to arrest. Pity.

aschelan view my photos
May 17, 2008 | 9:10 PM

Well the mother just taught her 5 year old that they don't need to put forth any effort in life. Work ethics are not improtant. Hey when life hands you lemons throw them on the ground and scream how life is unfair. I think the mother needs to be taken out to the shed for a reality check. Old school style.

I guess my taxes will be paying for his room and board at the state level in a few years!

FloydFreak read my blog view my photos
May 18, 2008 | 12:37 AM

Great observation, aschelan!

JackTrade read my blog view my photos
May 18, 2008 | 6:47 AM

What a nutty world we live in now. A five year old given a choice about attending school? Is that woman crazy??? I didn't like a lot of things my parents made me do, but I was fortunate that I was not given the choice, unless you want to say I had a choice of not doing it and winding up with a sore bottom, which was no choice at all. I agree with aschelan - that mother needs a good spanking, or at least a wake-up call.

Neanderthal read my blog
May 18, 2008 | 8:31 AM

Choice for learning is not an option but where you learn defintely is. Home education consistantly proves to be far superior to that in public schools.

What if Mom quit her job that pays for that gas guzzling S U V and expensive clothes for her school kids? What if her children began learning subjects that will serve them well instead of socially enginered courses in bio-diversity? What if the whole family came to experience the joy of learning together? The "choice" seems clear to me.

strawberrygirl read my blog
May 18, 2008 | 12:11 PM

That's just ridiculous. If I didn't make my children do something just because they told me they didn't like it, they would be couch potato piles of mush right now. Obviously kids don't want to go to school, study, do chores, even brush their teeth well. It's our job to be sure they do these things. It's our job to teach them right from wrong, respect, responsibility etc. I could go on and on. My girls complain that they don't want to do their schoolwork. I tell them that it's my job to be sure they have good grades. What if they decide they want to attend college? Then they would be very upset if they couldn't get in just because they didn't feel like doing their school work. If you have expectations for your children, they will rise to those expectations. My girls (older ones right now) are in honors and ap classes. They hate doing the work sometimes. But they sure are proud of themselves when they bring home the report cards with all the good grades. Or when they are honored at their school for their accomplishments. At least when my girls all graduate high school, I will have the peace of mind in knowing that I've given them the opportunity to move on and be as successful as they wish to be.

Too many parents these days don't want the responsibility that comes with having children. They don't want to be bothered by checking homework, going to parent/teahcer conferences, disciplining their children. It's just too much effort for them and they would rather be their child's best friend instead. It's really a shame. Because when it's all said and done,

JANICELPED read my blog
May 18, 2008 | 5:24 PM

What child is gonna want to go to school? If we, the parents don't stand up and be the parents our kids are gonna be walking all over us by the time they're 10. That ain't gonna happen with mine!. By letting her child stay home because he dosn't like something is teaching him that it's ok you can just do what you want. Be the parent for pity's sake. Make him go or you're gonna have a fun time when this poor child is sitting in jail at the age of 12 because he skipped school and robbed a store just because he didn't like school. Sounds like the parent needs to grow up!!!!

michelled read my blog view my photos
May 19, 2008 | 9:39 AM

Vitt, I tought maybe you'd had a labotomy. It's early for me and I didn't get it and joined MO in spitting out my coffee.

The mother is coaching her child to want to stay home and be a momma's boy so she doesn't have to go to work. What child gets to chose something so important and why would you ask unless you wanted a certain answer?

When your dad asked you if you wanted a whooping, how did you reply? No thanks, I think I'll continue doing what I want.

leasheryn read my blog
May 19, 2008 | 6:42 PM

Vit, your mother might have had another opinion if given the choice of putting baby back where he came from. She might find that a little uncomfortable.

However this is the problem: more and more children are getting their way when it comes to having choices. A parent gives up responsibility when they put these choice to children who haven't the ability or years of wisdome to decide whether they want an education.

Nean, I'm all in favor of giving a child a good education and home schooling provides that opportunity where public schools fail. However a parent needs the widest scope of an education to be able to teach their child correctly. I fail to see where a mother who is giving a child the choice about attending school would be the one to instill a child's desire to learn and become educated. That mother is more likely to let the child do as he pleases instead of participating in any form of schooling.

Mother has already proved herself to be a lazy daisy and the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

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leasheryn

I am in Sarasota and enjoy reading avidly, mostly about historical subjects and biographies. Also have travelled in England and Wales, visiting family and historical sights. I like a good conversation on nearly all subjects and, although I have opinions, am willing to listen to all sides of a topic. I believe in listening and learning so your opinions are always necessary to me.

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